“Good morning New York. I’m sorry to bother you. I’m not hungry. I do not want food or money, I just need a little support. I got dumped last week and I’m trying to give her space but I can’t do nothing. If you have any words of advice for me, a quote that resonates with you or a story about second chances, please raise your hand and I’ll come to you. I have sharpie markers and I’ll stay as long as it takes.”
I normally do not reblog this kind of shit, but for any dude that has ever been dumped, still in love and desperately tried to win her heart back, no matter the circumstance…this is legit shit. And do not give me that bullshit “dude, if she dumped you she obviously doesnt want to be with you, just get over it, you pathetic asshole”…First of all, fuck you. Second of all, fuck you.
Your comments are the epitome of rape culture and everything that is wrong with concept of friend-zoning. Fuck you. Like actually fuck you, you entitled piece of shit. Women owe you NOTHING. Women do know what they want, and if they dump you it IS because they don’t want to be with you. Stop perpetuating the sexist assumption that women don’t know their own mind. No means no, and any other interpretation is rape culture at work. You and your commentary can actually fuck off.
As for the OP: I’m speechless. “I’m trying to give her space, but I’m walking around with her face on a sandwich board and I’m convincing everyone that she’s the horrible person here and I’m so unfairly victimised.” Cool story, bro. Tell me more about how you’re irresistible and why everyone should want to be with you.
This is the reddest of flags.
Dear girl on billboard: Change the locks, change your number, and stay safe.
Hoooly shit this is disgusting.
FUCK THIS. FUCK EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS. THIS IS WHY I AM SO STRONGLY AGAINST FRIENDZONING.
Her privacy has been completely violated. Her face has been publicly displayed. Her relationships have been publicly exposed. Hundreds of people who have never met her and know nothing about her have felt the need to write words of advice and encouragement to get back with the man she CHOSE TO LEAVE.
How the FUCK anyone could think that her choice to get out of a relationship is ANYONE’s business but hers is BEYOND ME. YOU DON’T DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE. YOU’RE A FUCKING CREEPY ASSHOLE WHO’S COMPLETELY DISREGARDED HER CHOICES AND EVEN HER VERY STATUS AS A CONSCIOUS AND INDEPENDENT HUMAN BEING.
Fuck second chances. You deserve a kick in the balls. THIS IS NOT SWEET. IT’S NOT CUTE. IT’S STALKING, IT’S INVASION OF PRIVACY, IT’S CHILDISH, AND IT’S LIFE-RUINING.
Run, girl. Run. As far and as fast as you can.
I just want to grab his fucking sharpie and write all over that shit, “TRY RESPECTING HER AS A HUMAN BEING. THEN GET A FUCKING LIFE AND A CONSCIENCE AND MOVE ON.”
While I can agree with the above statements, I also want to say that heartbreak does some crazy shit to people.
It took me two years to get over my first love, two years, man.
Jesus people. I wish you would all stop acting like you know the situation. Maybe that guy is a creep, OR maybe he knows that girl likes big romantic gestures. Maybe he’s making her look bad, OR he’s singing her praises to everyone who will listen. You guys have no idea why they broke up, hell, maybe HE has no idea and that’s why he’s doing this. From what i understand he’s not giving out her personal information, and it’s just a blurry profile shot on that billboard, not exactly great for recognizing her.
The most important thing is that HE IS NOT DOING THIS FOR YOU PEOPLE. he’s doing it for a girl he thinks he’s in love with, and hopefully knows well. If it works great, if not hopefully the guy will be able to move on. Perhaps you should stop calling people creeps, assholes, and perverts, based on a paragraph of information.
(Source: mendmyheart)
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